我哥哥已经说了很多我想说的对大家的感谢，所以我想在这里分享我父亲在他人生的最后两个星期的点点滴滴。
我父亲是在2月9号星期一离开我们。
就在上两周，我发了一个美食博主的视频给他。他看了有兴趣，就跑去试试，不料咖啡店没开。我以为就这样没下文了，想不到几天后 （1月30号）他又回去，而且还发了他一生中的第一个food review。
“ conclusion - 炒面和炒煮面加了很多味精 and also not so good, 大鱼大肉就不知道。”
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"Poor service plus expensive price for food and drink. Too few workers, very busy."
他在用他的方式跟我说他不会带我去吃。
2月7号星期六，他在群里问我们过年谁要爆竹，烟花的。
我哥哥回答说，小型的可以。
"小型的不如看别人放的。"
爸爸就是这样，要做就要做大的。
我爸爸跟大家的爸爸一样，he is a man of few words. 特别是在几次中风之后，说话更困难，就索性不说了。他跟大家的问候，就是每天早上发的老人good morning 图。他不只发给家人，也发给朋友，甚至我在新加坡的老板也收到。有趣的是，他在whatsapp 和在wechat发的早安图都不一样，有时看到不同的图，一天还发好几张不一样的。
他在2月9号早上6点15分离开我们。那天早上6点零3分，他发了最后一张早安图，就走了， 多么痛快，潇洒。
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| 他的最后一张早安图 |
最后，我要感谢我的妈妈。
我爸爸对她有时不可爱，但是她还是守在他身边，不离不弃。刚才我哥哥说，爸爸最后也处理了很多事情，也跟很多朋友见了面。如果不是我妈妈在旁边，让他在身体受挫后一次一次恢復健康，他也没办法好好的办好他想要的。如果我妈妈到这个世界上的使命就是把我爸爸照顾好，我觉得她已经mission accomplished.
我希望大家以后来古晋，不要忘了我妈妈，要常常打电话给她，陪她聊天，带她出去喝茶，好吗？
最后，我希望我们不要记得我爸爸的不可爱，反而要记得他是多么的爱我们，和他的幽默和潇洒。谢谢。
我希望大家以后来古晋，不要忘了我妈妈，要常常打电话给她，陪她聊天，带她出去喝茶，好吗？
最后，我希望我们不要记得我爸爸的不可爱，反而要记得他是多么的爱我们，和他的幽默和潇洒。谢谢。
My brother has already expressed his gratitude to everyone, so I want to share some snippets of my father's last two weeks.
My father passed away on Monday, February 9th.
Just two weeks ago, I sent him a video from a food blogger. He was interested and went to try it out, but the coffee shop was closed. I thought that was the end of it, but a few days later (January 30th), he went back and posted his first-ever detailed food review.
"Conclusion - the fried noodles and stir-fried boiled noodles had a lot of MSG and weren't very good; I don't know about the more expensive meat and seafood dishes."
Also,
"Poor service plus expensive prices for food and drinks. Too few workers, very busy."
He was telling me in his own way that he would never take me there.
On Saturday, February 7th, he asked in the family group chat whether we wanted firecrackers and fireworks for Chinese New Year.
My brother replied, "Small ones are fine."
"Small ones, might as well watch the others'."
That's just how Dad was; if he was going to do something, he will do it big.
Like how many of you would describe your dads, my dad was also a man of few words. Especially after suffering several strokes, speaking became even more difficult, so he sometimes simply stopped talking. His greetings were a daily "Good morning" picture. He sent it not only to family but also to friends, and even my boss in Singapore received it. Interestingly, the "Good morning" pictures he sent on WhatsApp and WeChat were different; he might even send several different "Good morning" pictures in a single day.
He left us at 6:15 AM on 9th February. That morning at 6:03 AM, he sent his last "Good morning" picture and left—how swift and graceful.
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| His last "Good Morning" Picture. |
Finally, I want to thank my mum.
My dad wasn't always kind to her, but she stayed by his side, never abandoning him. My brother mentioned that Dad managed to settle many important issues and met with many friends. If it weren't for her, repeatedly nursing him back to health him from multiple setbacks, he wouldn't have been able to accomplish what he wanted. If my mother's mission in this world is to take good care of my father, then she has accomplished her mission handsomely.
I hope that when you visit Kuching in the future, you will forget my mother. Call her often, chat with her, and take her out for tea, okay?
Finally, I hope we will not remember my father's less-than-lovable qualities, but rather how much he loved us, and his humor and charm. Thank you.
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| 再会啦，幽默潇洒的爸爸。以后再跟你说Good Morning。 |
